How Ejaculation not cum fast
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Ejaculation not coming fast is an important issue because premature ejaculation is the most common sexual problem in men, as much research shows that 10%–30% of men suffer from this phenomenon at some point in their lives.
What is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation occurs when a man ejaculates faster than he or his partner would like during intercourse. Most men who suffer from premature ejaculation problems are very normal, and the problem is that ejaculation comes fast, within 2 minutes.
Many men misunderstand premature ejaculation; it should take less than 5 to 10 minutes, rather than cumming quickly. The factual conception of premature ejaculation differs from the incorrect conception reported by some people.
How long does ejaculation cum take?
The normal time for ejaculation to occur ranges between 2 and 7 minutes from the beginning of the intercourse. Therefore, premature ejaculation happens when ejaculation comes fast within 2 minutes.
How does ejaculation not come fast?
There are multiple methods to make ejaculation not cum fast, such as
1- Masturbate before intercourse:
The goal is to extend the time until the next flow, and directing the sexual energy from intercourse to different sex toys that do not include intercourse may relieve the tension that accompanies the intercourse process itself.
2- Pressure technology:
Immediately after feeling the erection approaching, apply light pressure with the fingers of the hand on the penis when feeling orgasm and ejaculation for 20 seconds, like holding urine when it comes out, and repeat the process when feeling close to orgasm, which stops ejaculation from coming fast and prevents the recurrence of premature ejaculation in men.
3- Use a condom:
Use a thick condom or an anesthetic condom to reduce sensation and ejaculation and not cum fast.
4- Thinking change:
Thinking of something other than intercourse during intercourse.
5- Kegel exercises:
Strengthen your pelvic floor muscles by doing pelvic floor exercises or Kegel exercises.
6- Antidepressant drugs:
Delayed ejaculation is a common side effect of antidepressant (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitor) drugs, so using a different antidepressant may not cause ejaculation to cum fast.
Fluoxetine, sertraline, and paroxetine are used to treat severe premature ejaculation, but it is not recommended to use them periodically without consulting a doctor. Its side effects may include drowsiness, loss of sexual desire, and nausea.
Dapoxetine, a fast-acting antidepressant, is prescribed for ejaculation, not cumming fast, after consulting a doctor, and its side effects include nausea, headache, dizziness, and diarrhea.
7- Anesthetic cream or spray:
Anesthetic cream or spray, such as lignocaine, is used 30 minutes before sexual intercourse and ejaculation, so you don't cum fast. The side effects of ointments are reduced sexual pleasure and sometimes local sensitivity, so the cream or spray must be washed off the genitals before starting intercourse so that the partner does not lose sensation or cause loss of erection and numbness in the penis.
8- Tramadol:
Tramadol may help with ejaculation, not cumming fast, but this medicine is not recommended for premature ejaculation because it poses an addiction risk. But it is not recommended to use them periodically without consulting a doctor.
9- PDEI-5 (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra):
PDEI-5 (phosphodiesterase-5 enzyme inhibitors) may lead to ejaculation, not cumming fast. These medications include sildenafil, vardenafil, and tadalafil. These medications can be used alone or in combination with selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. But it is not recommended to use them periodically without consulting a doctor.
10. Psychotherapy:
This treatment may relieve performance anxiety and relieve stress, which contributes a lot to premature ejaculation, as treating the problem generally requires a great deal of openness and willingness from both spouses.
This article was written and reviewed by Dr. Hassan Ali - Urologist
Medical References :
Content curated according to international clinical guidelines:
- American Urological Association (AUA).
- European Association of Urology (EAU).
- Campbell-Walsh Urology Textbook.
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